Monday, September 20, 2010

The Harlow Philosophy on Life(Keep it Chill).

Everyone is a friend until proven otherwise.
Trust is a very shaky bridge, only for the brave, mentally stable, and those with a strong relationship.
You can never ask a question to many times.
All roads lead to somewhere familiar.
Even in times of anger put forth a joyful demeanor. This will keep you out of danger and in some cases even change your mood for the better.
Forgiveness and peace are welcome in your mind, drama and chaos should be expelled.
Stay quiet and do not act out, listen, this way you will learn more of your surroundings.
Self defense is important, self aggrandizement is unnecessary.
Believe in something for if you do not it will be easier for you to lose your grip on reality, and at the same time do not believe in it so much that you lose your grip this way.
If you chose religion as a belief system, study it like a class in school.
It is always good to know all depths of your religion for the sake of preventing arguments, and staying strong in it.
And at the same time do not get caught up in your religion to far.
Casual religious views or low profile views are encouraged.
Better yourself with education but do not feel like you are restricted by it in anyway.
Success is built upon a firm foundation in social skills, if you have the capacity for these skills, advance them as much as possible.
Do not feel pressured into anything.
A laid back lifestyle will help you keep your cool.
Follow the law but beware that the justice system is flawed and some laws are foolish, stand up not for the law but for justice itself.
Music is a healing medicine use it as such.
Religion is the ember under the foot of warfare.
As for relationships and love, long term relationships are always better for the mental state than casual meetings, but at the same time long terms are a dangerous hazard only meant for the strong in mind. An unsuccessful long term can be as bad for you as a casual meet.
Love, be it real or imaginary, is something that you must share mentally with your partner for a relationship to work. If you don't believe in love or whatever then you just aren't doing it right. Love is not a noun its state of mind.
Be healthy, eat right, excersize.
Be cultured, do not limit yourself to one (country, genre, hobby, art style, or food).
Do not be compulsive, think before you act and plan in advance for best results.
Do not obsess over a person or an object like money etc. The only healthy "obsession" should be over your love interest.
Develop self reliability. A healthy confidence is always encouraged. A superiority complex is always shunned.
A vigilante style behavior or thought process is healthy.
Having an urge to protect your fellow humans is good.
Do not shun others for trying to be good people. The only time shunning is necessary is when someone is purposefully trying to disrupt the natural order in a way that ensues hatred anger or chaos.
Do not stereotype. One persons acts do not carry over to an entire group.
Even when a group of people is classified as the same they are all still seperate persons.
If you must consume the "unholies" do so in a healthy way do not binge and do not let if become an addiction.
Addictions are destructive forces that are unwelcomed.
Do not have sexual relations with someone you don't plan on developing a lasting strong relationship with(not for moral purposes) for the purpose of not being ignorant and keeping your body healthy and clean as well as keeping your mental state as stable as possible.
Beware of others' foolishness, competition as a healthy sport is good anger driven acts should be considered lashes out at society and should be neutralized from occuring.
Protect the ones you love, family friends and significant others.
You should be willing to give your lives for them if necessary.
Always be open to criticism it can shape you as a person when you are in influentially good company.
Never take what you have for granted always say thank you.
Do not be fake it is easier to tell the truth than to live a lie.
Neither murder nor suicide nor any major offense of law or morality is the answer to any question you may have.
Do not steal. Earn your belongings however hard it may be. Hard work always pays back wether it be now or in the future.
Knowledge is weaker than wisdom.

These guidelines, although overflowing with do nots, are made to help you in life, reduce stress, make it easier, and more relaxed. Always enjoy every moment you have and do not waste this life that can be so enjoyable.
Peace.

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